秒速pk10

致辅导员 | 高校辅导员如何成长为大学生的“人生导师”?

一、何谓“人生导师” 

秒速pk10zaigaoxiaoli,shuodao“daoshi”,renmenyibanhuixiangqi“shuoshishengdaoshi”huozhe“boshishengdaoshi”,zheishizhixueyefangmiandedaoshi。ranerhaiyouyizhongdaoshi,jiaozuo“renshengdaoshi”,yexuyourenhuijuedeyihuo: “renshengdaoshi”shisheia?——dangranjiushimiaosupk10gaoxiaolizuijuqinhelidefudaoyuanla!


qishizaozai2006nian7yue,guojiajiaoyubujiuzai24haoling《putonggaodengxuexiaofudaoyuanduiwujiansheguiding》zhongshoucitichu: “fudaoyuanyingdangnulichengweixueshengderenshengdaoshihejiankangchengzhangdezhixinpengyou。” 


2017nian9yue,jiaoyubuyouzai43haolingzhongzhongshenlegaoxiaofudaoyuande“renshengdaoshi”jiaose——“fudaoyuanyingdangnulichengweixueshengchengzhangchengcaiderenshengdaoshihejiankangshenghuodezhixinpengyou。” 


youcikejian,“renshengdaoshi”jiushizaigaoxiaolicongshifudaoyuangongzuode“ni,wo,ta(ta)”。neimiaosupk10zuodao“renshengdaoshi”lema?“renshengdaoshi”jiujingyinggaishishenmeyangzini? 


wochayuelezhongduowenxian,quefaxian: “renshengdaoshi”bingmeiyouyigetongyidedingyi,shuyukaifangxingshehuijiaose。meiyourenguiding“renshengdaoshi”yinggaizuoshenme,yinciyejirenwuxiandexiangxiangkongjian。 


zhengsuowei“daokedao,feichangdao”,yexuzhengshi“renshengdaoshi”jiaosedebukemiaoshuxing,caisuzaolefudaoyuanzhiyejiaosedezuigaojingjie。 


zaichuyurenshengchengzhangguanjianqidedaxueshengmianqian,miaosupk10jianzhenghepeibanzhetamendemeiyibuchengzhang,miaosupk10yizijiderenshengyuelihezhihui,weitamenzhidianmijin,yinlingtamenrenshengchengzhangdefangxiang,zheibujiushidui“renshengdaoshi”jiaosedezuihaoquanshima? 


二、如何做“人生导师” 

rujindegaoxiaofudaoyuandaduowei80hou、90hou,congrenshengjinglishanglaikan,huoxumeiyou60hou、70houneimefengfu,erqiezishenhaimianlinzhemaifangjiehun、shengeryunv、shanyangfumudengrenshengzhongren。 

秒速pk10youqishi90houfudaoyuan,kenengzijibidaxueshengmenyedabulejisui,neizenyangcainenggoudandangqirangdaxueshengmenxinfukoufude“renshengdaoshi”ni?


秒速pk101、fudaoyuanyingjidianrenshengzhihui 

秒速pk10fudaoyuanzishenyaozuoyigeyourenshengzhihuideren,dangxueshengyudaokunhuomimangshi,nicaikeyichongfenfahuizijidecaizhi,weitamen “bodeyunkaijianyueming”。danshizaifudaoyuanrenshengyueliyouxiandeqingkuangxia,zenyangcainengxunsuzengzhangrenshengzhihuini? 


shouxian,fudaoyuankeyiconggujinzhongwaideyouxiushujizhongxunzhaorenshengzhihui,duoduyixierenshengzhexuefangmiandeshu,biruzhouguopingde《zhihuiyinlingxingfu》、yudande《lunyuxinde》、peigende《renshenglun》deng。“shudubaibian,qiyizijian”,congshuzhongjiqudaodesixiangheguandian,doukeyiqianyimohuachengmiaosupk10zijiderenshengzhihui。 


qici,fudaoyuankeyiduogennianzhangdetongshimenjiaoliuqiecuo。gaoxiaolijujizhezhongduozhuanyejiaoshi、jiaowuxingzhengrenyuandeng,tamenzaizhangqidejiaoxueguanlizhong,jileilefengfudejingyanhexinde。fudaoyuanbuyingjuxianyuzijidequanzi,yingzhudongxianglaojiaoshou、nianzhangdetongshimenqingjiao,xiangtamenjiqurenshengzhihui。 


biru,wosuozaixueyuandejiaowuban,youyiweinianzhangdejiaowurenyuan,tacongshilesanshiduoniandejiaowugongzuo,neizhongyisibugou、jingjingyeyedetaidu,feichanglingrenjingpei,miaosupk10douqinqiedihanta“chenayi”。meiciwoxiangtalejiexueshengdekaoshijixuexiqingkuangshi,tadounaixinxizhidijiyuwohuifu,binggaosuwo“daxueshengdexuexishilaibudebandianhanhude”。 


rujin,“chenayi”xianzaiyijingtuixiule,woqueshishihuainianqitajishinianruyiridejingyejingshen,tazaigongzuozhongyuwojiaoliudeyanyuxinde,chengweilewojiqurenshengzhihuideyuanquan。


2、fudaoyuanyingzhuzhongqingxuguanli 

秒速pk10fudaoyuanzheigequntideyoushishinianqing,chongmanjiqingyuhuoli,henrongyiyudaxueshengdachengyipian。dannianqingyoushijiunanmianqisheng,qingxushangrongyichongdong,yudaxueshengfashengbuyukuai,buliyujianlilianghaodeshishengguanxi。


秒速pk10jidezaiwogongzuodediyinian,fuzeguanlixueshengshetuan。youyiciyingyuxiehuijubanhuodong,wojixiehuijiehaolejiaoshi,xueshengbajiaoshizhuangbanyixin,xuanguaqicaidai、qiqiu,bingzhunbeileshuiguo、lingshideng,yingzaochuwenxindefenwei。huodongjinxingdehenhao,danshijieshuhou,xueshengbingmeiyouchulijiaoshideweisheng。 


秒速pk10woyitingjiumengle,limajixiehuihuizhangdadianhua,haimeidengtakaikoujianghua,wojiupitougailiandibataxunleyitong。bijinghaishixuesheng,tingdaolaoshizheimeyanciliyude,dunshihehuaile,weiqudizaidianhualishuodao: “laoshi,zhendeduibuqi,miaosupk10yiweihuiyoubaojieyuanlaidasaode……。” 


shihou,woyixiangkenengdangshiyequeshiqingxujidongledian,erqiezijiyeyouzeren,shixianmeiyouzhufuxuesheng。baxueshenghechengzheiyang,yihouxueshengjianlewoqibushiyaoduodeyuanyuande?neihaizenmezuoxueshengde“zhixinpengyou”,genghetan“renshengdaoshi”ni? 


fudaoyuanrichanggongzuobijiaosuosui,xuyaofuzeguanlidexueshengdongzhejibairen,zoufangqinshi、chakaoqin、pingjiangpingyou、zizhupinkunsheng、zhidaoshehuishijiandeng,shejidaoxueshengdexuexi、sixiang、shenghuo、qinggan、renjijiaowangdengfangfangmianmian,shiwujuxi,nanmianzishengjiaolv、jinzhang、fanzaodengfumianqingxu,shenzhichansheng“zhiyejuandaigan”。 


yincifudaoyuanyingzhuzhongzishenqingxuguanli,shanyushibiehediaozhengzijidefumianqingxu,tongguoshidangfangshilaihuanjieheshifangyali,birutingyinle、lianyujia、manpao、jiaoyoudeng。 


lingwaihaiyaoxuehuixunqiushehuizhichi,bijingnibushiyigerenzaizhandou,changshibazijidexiangfagenjiarenhuoshenbianyaohaodetongshijinxingfenxiang,rangtamencongpangguanzhedejiaodujiyunijianyi,yexunihuizhuanhuanyixiasiweifangshi,jinkuaizouchufumianqingxu。 


秒速pk103、 weifudaoyuandajiankuansongkongjian 

秒速pk10buzhifudaoyuantongrenmenyoumeiyouzheiyangdetiyan: zhanzaijiaoxueloumenkoudushangkechidaodexuesheng,daojiaoshilidianmingchakuangkedexuesheng,qianruqinshilizhuashuilanjuedexuesheng……youmeiyouyizhong“maohelaoshu”deganjue?ruguodaxueshengjiandaofudaoyuanlaile,shiweikongbizhierbujidehua,haizenmenenggenfudaoyuanyiqi“changtanrensheng”ni? 


youci,yikekanchumiaosupk10gaoxiaolidexueshengshiwugongzuo,guandeguoyujixieyusiban,fudaoyuanyuxueshengzhijiandeguanxibijiaojinzhang。zheizhongfangshiqishibingbuliyupeiyangyouzhutiyishidedaxuesheng,yerangfudaoyuandegongzuoxiandesuishikebeirentidai,tuxianbuchufudaoyuandezhuanyehua、zhiyehua。 


yinci,gaoxiaoyingjiyufudaoyuangengduokuansongdekongjian,rangfudaoyuancongrichangsuosuideshiwuxinggongzuozhongzouchulai,jizhongjinglifahuizhuanzhang,tuozhanzijigangweidebuketidaixing,tishengjiaoyunengli。 


秒速pk10lingwai,gaoxiaohaiyingzaidilikongjianshangweifudaoyuanyingzaoyudaxueshengjiaoliudejihui,ruzaixiaoyuanlishezhitinglang、huwaizhuoyi、shuba、kafeibadengxiuxianquyu,rangfudaoyuanyudaxueshengdejiaoliu,buyidingjuxianyubangongshi、jiaoshi、qinshihuowangluo;rangfudaoyuanyudaxueshengdoubijiaofangsong,gengrongyixiangpengyoubanxiangchu。 


秒速pk10jideyougenanshengyinduomengongkeguake,mianlin“tuixuejingshi”,yushiwodadianhuajita,yuetalaibangongshi,xianglejietadexuexiqingkuang。jieguozheigenanshengdaizhedichuqingxuzoujinbangongshi,yijiandaowojiuzhiyanbuhuidishuodao: “laoshi,wobuxihuannijiaowolaibangongshitanhuadezheizhongfangshi。” 


woxiangyexumiaosupk10dejiaoyugongzuo,queshiyinggaiduotuozhanyixiekongjian。zhengruzhumingzuojialinyutangsuoshuo: “ketangshangdexuewenshiside,jixieshide,zaiketangwaixiantanshilundaodexuewencaishihuode,shengdongde,yurenshengyouguande。” 


cengjingyingguoliuxuedexuzhimo,duiniujindaxuewenmingyushide“daoshizhi”shenyoutihui,tazai《xiyanyuwenhua》yiwenzhongxiedao: “daoshidemijuejiuzaiyu‘duizhunletadetudimenchouyan’,duoshaoweidadezhengzhijia、xuezhe、shiren、yishujia、kexuejia,doushiyanweierjixunchulaide。” 


秒速pk10cihuasuiyouxieguoyushiyihua,quejieshileyigedaoli: kuansongdekongjian,gengliyufahuirendechuangzaolihewuxing。fudaoyuanyudaxueshengzhijian,buyingshi“maohelaoshu”deguanxi,gengyingshiqinmidepengyou、huoban、zhiji。 


san、jieyu

秒速pk10rensheng,shiyigemanzhangdeguocheng。meigerenderenshengdaolu,doujiongranbutong,jiyoufengyulaixi,yeyouyangguangcanlan。fudaoyuanjiyaozouhaozijiderenshengdaolu,yeyaoyindaodaxueshengshaozouwanlu,bikailushangdeqiqunining,yinglaiguangmingqiantuyumeihaorensheng。 


yinci,“renshengdaoshi”bingbushiyifenqingsongdegongzuo,xuyaofudaoyuanxincunjingweizhixin,lingwurenshengzhendi,chongfenfahuirenshengzhihui,shixianfudaoyuanzhiyedezuigaojiazhi!


秒速pk10